Here’s some business/life advice- Break the rules, but not the law!

Sounds good, but let’s look into it too much.

What is the difference between “rules” and “laws”?

Rules aren’t necessary, but we make them anyway. We give ourselves rules, we give others rules, usually made up for whatever reason and we follow them (for whatever reason).

Sometimes rules are fun. In fact, lots of people make up rules for fun. People get together in empty fields with a round object, make up a buch of rules- and then go home feeling better (as if life doesn’t give us enough rules to follow) Isn’t the definition of a game just a list of rules?

Sometimes rules are not fun. You have to have a special degree to earn so much money. Its unwritten, but entirely real, and waiting to be broken. You don’t do anyone a favor by following those rules. You have to break them.

So what is a “Law”?

Laws aren’t fun. “Laws” often become one person forcing their will on another. The difference is that laws are made up, but ARE necessary. Laws are simply rules we all agreed to follow to maintain some civility in our everyday lives.

One way or another, you agreed to follow the law so that in return you can live in a civilized society, your freedom is in direct conflict with the law, but you agreed to give it up- to make your neighborhood a better place.

If I’m waiting to turn left at a traffic light and you decide to run the red light- That’s messed up.

You agreed not to go when the light is red. Now, you’re going- not cool. At one point we all agreed to go when the light is green, and to stop when the light is red- now you’re doing the opposite.

You didn’t just break the law, you lied to me which is why it’s not cool.

Although it is entirely possible to go through a red light (sometimes), you don’t, because you agreed not to.

And you honor your agreements, right?

I feel a matrix coming on… Since I seek out every opportunity to build a matrix, I think I will:

Or at least that’s just how I see it.

Sean Deminski

Sean is a writer located outside of Philadelphia who reads just a little too much into things. He likes to share his unique perspectives on writing, technology, business, and life. He has been a licensed Real Estate Agent serving the western 'burbs of Philly for 3 years. Among other things he enjoys playing music, craft beer, and conversations involving politics or technology.

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